Yes, I know everyone has a problem with something in their lives. Whether it is the inner demons you deal with or a physical deformation. Or maybe it’s just a simple jealousy problem with their mates. We all have something we would like to change about us that we don’t like about ourselves. Who is to judge just how bad a problem really is? I think the only logical answer is you. So if you admit or at least realize there may be a problem then this would be the first stage to recovery. You have to take responsibility upon yourself to either fix the problem yourself. Or seek help with it if you cannot. There may not be a cure, but there are ways to cope with it. Certain prescribe drugs can help to alliviate the problems.

This is why I have decided to write about my problem. The one I have dealt with almost all of my life. Its title is "Obsessive Compulsiveness". To layman’s it could involve washing the hands constantly. Or, possibly having sexual anxiety urges a lot. Fear of your significant lover being involved sexually, with somebody else. Depression can play a big part in all this mess as a result as well. Some may even have more of anxiety problems instead. Like fear of losing a girlfriend or boyfriend.

You do have choices you know. There are plenty of professionals in this field to advise you and possibly guide you to your sanity. One way would be to make an appointment to get help with a mental health professional. There is absolutely no shame in doing so. In fact, you are the strong one for even going to the meeting. At the least, it can’t hurt you to talk it out and get things off your chest.

If you do not get good results From your meeting, then by all means seek a friend or Coven member you trust to talk to about it. The Priesthood or elders of a circle can be very knowledgeable and may have good counseling skills to help you as well.

I did seek professional help a few times. But I will tell you the truth; I did not get the results that other people had hoped for. So I chose to deal with this problem myself. I went through a handful of relationships carrying this ugly demon with me. Until I met the path of Wicca and my beautiful wife Magenta Rose.

The God and Goddess have helped me to overcome a very severe case of jealousy. They removed the evil thoughts that I could conjure up in my mind from time to time. Things never really happened the way I imagined it did.

So if this jealous thing fits you to tee, or some other affliction, then I would advise finding your path to freedom. Wicca is our salvation. Or at least try to find some path similar in positive light. We are fortunate to follow the same path. I kind of hate to bring this out in the open but I will. If you and you’re loved one are not on the same path or similar, then it could cause a problem in your relationship someday down the road. Not always, but a majority of the time. This is my analogy and it needed to be stated. I am sure some people can vouch for this as it probably has happened to them.